Do You Feel People Are Taking Advantage Of You?

There is no question that all of us want to be respected and treated right. We do nice things just to please everybody if we can. But do you know the limitation of your kindness? Do you feel that people are taking advantage of you? Find out why.

1

There is only one book left on the shelf and you really need it for your thesis, but here is your crush asking for a favor if she can read it first, would you let her have it?

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- yes, that’s plus point for me
- why not, I can still read it after her
- my crush? Of course
- I need it too, no way
2

Do you always feel that helping others is your responsibility?

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- all the time
- most of the time
- only with my family
- no
3

Do you feel responsible for everything?

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- all the time
- most of the time
- only with my family
- no
4

Do you often say yes even if you want to say no?

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- all the time
- most of the time
- only with my family
- no
5

You are so accommodating even though you know that nothing will be left for you.

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- all the time
- most of the time
- only with my family
- no
6

Do you let somebody use your cell phone?

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- yes, it’s just a cell phone
- only if needed
- only my family
- it depend on the urgency and with limitations
7

Your friend borrows money but you know it’s just for his vices. Would you lend him money?

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- Yes, that’s what friends are for isn’t it?
- not the whole amount
- No
- definitely no!
8

You are so tired and heading for home but your friend asks you to fetch her somewhere. Would you fetch her?

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- Yes
- I will ask my other friend to fetch her
- hell no
- I will tell her I can't
9

You found out that your partner is having an affair with your best friend, would you forgive them?

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- yes I can't stand to lose them
- only when I see their sincerity
- no way!
- I can but I don’t need them anymore in my life
10

Can you leave your work to help others?

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- yes, I often do it
- sometimes
- if it concerns my family, yes
- only when I see the urgency
11

Do you have difficulty saying “no”?

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- that’s my problem
- sometimes
- only with my family
- no, I can stand firmly
12

Do you invest money not because you know it’s going to be profitable but because you just can't say no to a friend?

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- just for my friend
- both
- it must be profitable
- profitability is my big consideration
13

Would you still forgive a friend who betrayed your trust?

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- yes, I can forgive him
- if I see his sincere repentance
- I’d rather not
- Maybe but it’s hard to bring back the trust
14

Your neighbor asks you to take care of her cat while they are away but you don’t like cats. What will you do?

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- get the cat, what can I do?
- get the cat and let my sister take care of it
- plain and simple, no
- I will ask him to find someone else
15

Your friend stayed longer in your house than you have expected and you are not comfortable about it. What would you do?

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- bear with him until he goes (sigh)
- Ask another friend if he can accommodate him
- I will tell him point blank
- I will discuss the matter with him
16

You always want people to see you as Mr. Nice.

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- always
- most of the time
- not really
- no, just be my self
17

You think that if you want to get respect, all you have to do is to be nice always.

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- always
- most of the time
- not really
- no, you must have respect for yourself too
18

You start to feel tired helping people.

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- yes
- sometimes
- partly yes
- not really
19

You can't say no when somebody is asking for forgiveness.

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- yes
- sometimes
- partly yes
- not really
20

Honestly, do you feel that people are taking advantage of your kindness?

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- yes
- sometimes
- partly yes
- not really